Marriage and Love
It is hard to imagine that a marriage without love. Needless to say, without love, a marriage relationship would be meaningless and purposeless. There is no single person who could get married without love.
We all have our own concept of love. Love might mean different things to different people. To some love is care, to some it is concern and to some others it is compassion and so on. Whatever ideas one might have about love, you will agree that to be able to love someone we should be able to devote our energy and time to those we love. It is more so in a marriage. In a marriage relationship, love is solace, kindness, tenderness and so many other nice feelings.
It is hard to imagine that a marriage without love. Needless to say, without love, a marriage relationship would be meaningless and purposeless. You wouldn’t know what your life is all about and whom you are living for, to marry a person without love. If you want to develop a capability to love, the first step is to learn how to love yourself.
You may wonder how self-love helps your marriage. If you try yourself hard to love yourself and your other half, your attitudes and approach will be changed as well. Some certain abilities involved in the love will be extended to your spouse: you will understand the way he feels and what he needs, you will express yourself bravely without reservation, you will listen to him patiently without giving any judgment to interrupt him while he talks, you will take it as a good opportunity to improve yourself whenever he makes a criticism, you will let him to do anything he wants as long as it won’t harm your relationship.
A sense of deep intimacy will be achieved between you and your spouse if only you can show the above qualities. Sometimes things are not always like what we expected since no two people can live in a world without difficulties. You will tackle it in a good way without hurting each others feelings. Your relationship with your spouse will be tightening up by this type of freedom. As a matter of fact, difficulties can strengthen your relationship instead of breaking it.
How do you build your capability to love your spouse? To love your spouse in healthy ways, you can do the following:
1.Learn to see him as a separate human being with valid emotions and needs in life.
2.Do not be disturbed by differences.
3. Be compassionate to your partner.
4.Be more understanding and accept that his views are important to him as much as your views are important to you.
5.Learn to agree to disagree in different type of opinion.
6.Do not try to snatch his freedom.
7.Try not to have an attitude of eye-to-eye. If he disagrees just let him be.
8.Do not be demand for his attention or love. This is hard because his love and attention means a lot to you. But love never comes on demand. Instead, be patient and loving and you will be returned with love.
9.Sometimes, you may do something for him just because you love him. This is good because it adds up strength to your bonding.
Marriage requires love, care, concern equality and compromise in all matters. It works only when both the partners work at their relationship as a team.
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